Personal development is a wonderful thing you can do for yourself, but it is often the least important activity in our lives. A coach can help us to discover our uniqueness and how to apply it to improve our lives. Often, people may agree to this, but they may still have reasons for not seeking...
In my coaching, I notice that forgiveness is an issue that many people struggle with. Forgiving someone doesn’t mean that we approve of what (we think) they have done to us. When we can’t forgive, we keep giving someone else (or our past, if we can’t forgive ourselves) power over what we think and feel....
Albert Einstein: “I think the most important question facing humanity is, ‘Is the universe a friendly place?’ This is the first and most basic question all people must answer for themselves.” “For if we decide that the universe is an unfriendly place, then we will use our technology, our scientific discoveries, and our natural resources...
So, you have done everything that you could, to become successful in the world, and you succeeded. You have become a highly respected and wealthy person, with a huge bank account and all the possessions that you could wish for. Chances are you’ve spent all your energy building this “outside stuff”, thinking that this would bring you...
Last night, when I was trying to fall asleep, this beautiful Albert Camus quote kept running through my head: It reminds me of what the essence of coaching for me is all about: to be a client’s buddy (as someone put it in a comment on one of my previous posts). For as long as is needed,...
Could it be, that our enemy number 1 is not someone or something outside of us? Could it be that it is our own inner judge? The voice in our head, that pops up at the most unexpected (and unwelcome) moments, to tell us: You have not done enough, are not good enough, not worthy...
In fact, that’s not what matters. What we do with it matters. As long as we make excuses, and blame others or circumstances, we give away our power. Although that’s easier said than done: By taking full responsibility for (every aspect of) our life, we reclaim that power, and can start creating a life that...
What do we teach our children about happiness….? What example do we give them, when we are totally focused on achieving our material goals, but still are unfulfilled, worried, and fearful, like so many of us are? Aren’t we teaching our children that success will not bring them happiness when we ourselves are unhappy? Shouldn’t...
Suppose that you (like a lot of us) have been taught by your parents, teachers, and society, that when you do everything possible to be successful in the world, you will be happy. And so, you did exactly that, and now you have (finally) become a highly respected and wealthy person, with a huge bank...
*When you have been wanting things in your life badly for so long, and they are not manifesting; what can you do?” A short Abraham Hicks video (see link below) called: “Start With Easy Things”, explains why your dominant focus on what is, instead of on what you want, keeps you “stuck” where you are....
